What is a lavender marriage?

A lavender marriage is a term used to describe a marriage where one or both partners are homosexual, but decide to enter into a marriage for various reasons such as societal pressure, financial stability, or to conceal their true sexual orientation. The term originated in the early 20th century and is derived from the idea that lavender is often associated with homosexuality.

These types of marriages were more common in the past when homosexuality was stigmatized and same-sex marriage was not legally recognized in many places. In some cases, lavender marriages were arranged by family members or societal expectations, and could be detrimental to the mental and emotional well-being of the individuals involved.

Today, as attitudes towards LGBTQ+ individuals have become more accepting and same-sex marriage is legally recognized in many countries, lavender marriages are less common. However, some individuals may still enter into these marriages for personal reasons, leading to issues such as lack of authenticity, communication, and long-term fulfillment.